The Definition of Love

A definition can change according to situations or the nature of a person, but the definition of love always remains the same.

LoVe has different names in different cultures, but it all leads to one thing.
LoVe according to me is when you cannot stay away from the person, that every thought that you have has a deep connection to her. Everything that reminds you of her jus randomly pop up. When you want to get something to eat but it's her favorite, you get it but instead of having it even tho you're really craving it you keep it for her and instead have something else even when you don't like it. LoVe is sacrifice and it means you sacrifice everything you have for the one who you love, that kind of love is stupidity. You Sacrifice a little of what you have just to make someone happy.

Nowadays money is everything, love doesn't exist all that much. It's not the same that it was when ur parents were in love n got married.
Being in love is the most wonderful feeling kinda like Christmas, but everyday when u see that person ur heart skips a beat, u get butterfly's in ur head, u say all the wrong things, u act like a goofball. LoVe does that to you.

Sadly people value materialistic things more than the person itself, and when something drastic happens they wonder why they didn't appreciate the moments they got to spend with the person. It's the harsh reality that we all have to deal with that we would never truly know if someone actually loves you as much as you love them.

ADDICTION

What is addiction?

Addiction is something that ties you down, makes u a slave to a substance or a thing.
Addiction is bad when it gets to a point that u cannot live without it, it makes u so dependent on it that u don't know what's right or wrong, when ur life gets so messed up and u think that the only thing that can satisfy you is the thing that your addicted to.
Addiction can affect your mind body n soul. U may think ur in control,but have u realized that jus maybe your being controlled by that addiction.

Drinking is one of the easiest things to get addicted too. Once a person has alcohol in they system they feel like they free n calm n peaceful.
Alcohol is a downer, no matter how happy it makes u, no matter how much fun u think ur having, alcohol always, always downs u.
People who say that having a beer to cool of steam after a hard day at work will tell u that its something that relaxes u, anything in moderation is good and taken in excess becomes addiction.
I have experienced this firsthand, I have been a very happy person, q person who doesn't drink o so much and when life started fucking me over, I turned to alcohol. Alcohol dosent bring people close, it rips them apart. I am so fucked out in life now, that when I drink I jus get very conscious and I try to be the fun person that I was but it doesn't really work, I get into a stage that I'm not the fun person anymore, I'm jus this depressed guy who doesn't know what's happening in his life and where he has to go, what he has to do. I'm not addicted to alcohol but I am to ciggrattes. I know a lot of u are gonna start taunting me about what I post. But this is my blog I just write stuff that's been on my mind.

Jealousy

Jealousy Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, concern, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of status or something of great personal value, particularly in reference to a human connection (As stated via wikipedia)

Is It Really That Simple 

Jealousy is present within all of us, that little spark of green in the back of the eye. no matter how u deny or say u dont posses it it still shows up one day or the other. At a young age it shows up bettween siblings who compete for their parents attention or envy of a more sucessfull friend. 

I would be called a hypocrit cause i keep saying i dont get jealous, but infact i get jealous alot. I have just learnt that getting jealous and creating a disturbance aint gonna solve the problem. So what is it with being jealous, 

Conventional wisdom holds that jealousy is a necessary emotion because it preserves social bonds, but jealously usually does more harm than good, creating relationship conflict and strife.

In simple words jealousy is the feeling that you get when you see someone getting something n you dont get it. 

It mostly is about a materialist thing or a emotional thing. 

What Is A Lie

A Lie

Its something that we all do at one point in time or the other. Its something that our minds have been programmed to do at a young age, like if you have a sibling and you caught him or her doing something wrong they usually will give you something as a bribe to Lie. Our minds associate the lying with something good at the end of the line, however if you actually see, lying is a wretched hole to get out off. We all lie so do i, sometimes its easier to lie and go the easy way rather than going the hard way.Sometimes we make up fake stories jus to keep our tails high jus to keep face in society, we lie about having a job, about having money having luxories in life that others have jus so that you dont get treated any different. I have seen the lying life for quite a few years now, n the side with the truth n nothing but the truth is not a sugar coated one but a really ridiculously bitter one, trying to cover up a lie that you said years ago jus to get in the good books for someone who dosent give a shit about you is actually useless. took me a couple of years to realise that you can live with the friends and people around you by telling the truth. lying may be easy like water but the truth is like oil and it always surfaces no matter what. Been using the path of truth for a few years now and it is actually paying off, the feeling of guilt and sadness of not having something is gone. Was going through my chats on fb and realized how i have changed in the past few years. i dont care if people are going to judge me about what i write he in the blog, however i wasn't much of a writer. but sometimes its easier to write something than say it; coz most of the time no one is gonna hear a word u say. 

What is destiny, is it Real or can you make your own?

Destiny is a weird thing; people always say it was your destiny to get to a certain place, be at a certain position at work or meet your long lost friend or a lover. What if that is not true, suppose you go for a job that you are destined to get but you dont end up getting is that destiny, were you destined not to get it coz theres someting better in store for you. Look at me for example, i do electronics and many people tell me that i should open my own bussiness. Now opneing my own business is that my destiny or is it something that i want. how do you differenciate between the two.